Ultimate Guide For Fingering Fun, 7 Different Ways
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“What’s the big mystery? It’s my vagina, not the sphinx!” - Miranda (Sex and the City)
Yeah “ha..ha..ha”, after you get over the fact that I had to watch that god darn show (which I ended up enjoying) to learn more about women to help you ungrateful readers, we will get started in learning more about the clitoris and many ways you’ll be able to stimulate it beyond belief and leave her completely satisfied.I’ve asked a few guys and girls about this subject and although the majority of guys said their Pro’s at it, most girls said a lot guys didn’t know what to do with it or actually even find it for that matter.If you master the art of fingering a women, she will never want to let you go and not only that, but if Sex and the City has taught us something (which I can confirm is true)…it’s that women share these sexual stories with all their friends putting into effect the social proof and scarcity principals.
Understanding The Clitoris
Let me first state that in this article I’m not going to tell you some spiritual nonsense about becoming one with your finger, lets keep it simple. The clitoris has a bud-like (flower) shape that can be found where the top of a woman’s inner labia (lips) begin. Theres a layer of skin covering the actual clitoris that in vulgar terms we refer to it as the “hood”.
Although you may think the penis and vagina have nothing in common your quite wrong, biologically speaking, it’s the direct equivalent to the penis only it’s inwards.When women get excited, blood rushes to their vagina making it swell up, this is her form of our erection.
When it comes to sizes I have really seen some strange stuff, normally it has to do with their ethnicity but it varies from woman to woman. The average size is about 1/8 inch to 3/8 inch in width some being smaller and some being bigger.
The Warm Up
Take in consideration every women has a different speed, tempo and amount of fingers she enjoys, it’s up to you to find these out.You have the option of starting off with one finger till she becomes receptive to the second.Using your middle and index finger in a V shape, rub them up and down on her inner labia (vaginal lips).
Once you’ve rubbed enough and she’s sufficiently moist, use both of the fingers tips to massage her clitoris in a circular clockwise motion slowly increasing speed as she becomes more aroused.Every now and again you can gradually circular motion your way into the inside of her while moving your fingers in and out passing yourself (don’t be afraid to explore a bit inside there) and then returning back to the circular massage motion.
Always try and observe her reactions to different maneuvers so you know what she likes, how fast she likes or it how much pressure you should put.They usually provide you with some kind of feedback, if shes screaming “Yes! Deeper! Faster! Don’t Stop! More!” we are on the right track, however if she gets squeamish, tries to stop you or turns on the tv to watch The View, your doing something drastically wrong.If your not certain about anything don’t be afraid to ask her, just make sure its a yes or no type of question cause you don’t want her thinking to much and loosing focus on the pleasure.
Different Fingering Methods
I have mention the circular motion massage method which 90% of girls enjoy, but there are other ways you can use you fingers to make her reach an unbelievable climax, some of these methods work on different types of girls and aren’t necessarily received in the same gratifying way by all of them but in the majority of cases they are.
- Multi Tasker: If your the type of guy that can manage multiple tasks at the same time, this is the ideal method for you, it’s basically using both your hands but each doing a different method at a different tempo.While the right hand is doing the all around favorite clitoris circular massage you can use the index and middle fingers of the left hand to penetrate in a slow but steady motion (you can increase speed based on what you observe from her reactions).
- Wild West: Whose the fastest finger in the wild west (or south in this analogy)? This method works on most women that like to bunny hop on top of you, insert your middle finger (supposing its the thickest and longest in your hand) into her clitoris and go in and out of her at high speeds but try to find a position where your had is straight as this way you can go as fast as you can without missing (oh trust me, you don’t want to miss!).
- Cork Screw: Similar to the “Wild West”, find a position where your hand can be perfectly straight and in level with her vagina. With your hands palm facing down, insert your index and middle fingers all the way inside her clitoris then turn it so your palm is facing up and in that same motion gradually exit her clitoris.Something that drives them crazy with pleasure is also flicking her clitoris with your thumb while your doing the screw exit motion.
- Unknown Territory: For this one you need to make sure she’s up for it, while your hand is sideways use your middle/index finger on her clitoris and insert your pinky finger into her anus.Simultaneous stimulation is a new experience for her so take it a bit slow (like all things with women), also keep in mind once your finger has been in her anus you can’t use it to toucher her vagina (or any other orifice) as it can lead to infection.
- Morse Code: Normally used in between different maneuver/methods, it’s a great way to keep the clitoris moist. Use your index and ring finger to separate her inner labia (lips), with your middle finger gently tap the clitoris, rub up and down or flick it.
- Snail: I called it the snail for amount of lube you must use in this one (snails leave drool), start by placing the tips of your index and middle finger one on each side of her clitoris, then slowly glide down and make your way inside her vagina, once in extract your fingers (in a cork screw motion preferably) and repeat the whole thing.
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Seriously, it’s physically impossible to INSERT anything into the clitoris. I think you need to research your terms a bit more.