Is She Cheating On You? 14 Sure Signs
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According to recent studies, 22% of married men and 14% of married women have admitted to cheating on their partners at least once.That means for for every two guys that cheat there is at least one women that has admitted to cheating, many men have probably lied about cheating in that study but if men are ashamed…just imagen how many women have given misleading answers.
Reasons
To be fair, us guys have less valid reasons than women for cheating.We usually cheat cause we find someone we feel very sexually attracted to or enjoy the thrill that having someone on the side brings, while the majority of women who cheat do it cause they feel ignored/unappreciated, bored in a monotonous relationship or simply have one of the mens reasons above.
Signs She Is Cheating
- Appearance: Usually when women become comfortable with their partner they will start wearing not so sexy lingerie, dressing more comfortably around them, start letting the pounds on.If suddenly you start to see her with sexy new lingerie, tight clothes, works out at the gym, more perfume or jewelry…it would indicate she’s trying to appear sexier for someone other than you.
- Independent: If you have one of those girls who’s always dragging you to go out shopping, walks, beach, picnics, movies and then suddenly stops asking you to come along, she might of found someone to replace your company. Most of the time it’s a new girl friend or she might want to spend some time on her own but keep an eye out for anything suspicious.
- Desire: Has she suddenly lost her sexual desire? Some women drown in guilt about cheating so they try and please you anyway they can as I mentioned above, others however come straight from work and run into the shower (they feel dirty and want to make sure the smell of the other guy is off) then when it comes down to business start putting on excuses, eg: “not tonight, I have a headache”.If you’ve been married for a while it could be understandable as she probably has a busy schedule taking care of the kids ect…but in a new relationship where both partners still feel the sex appeal for each other and haven’t got busy schedules, it’s rare.
- Prospective Future: Are you in a comfortable relationship where you think everything is fine and out of nowhere she starts questioning the future of your relationship and where it is going? Thats a strong sign she might have found someone else and is contemplating her options and possibilities.
- Subconscious: Sometimes their subconscious will play up on them a bit and they will start talking a bit more than usual about someone at work or in their daily life, it doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll talk well about that person but it means that person is on their mind a lot.
- Body Language: Body language is a great give away with women cheaters, they can’t look at you in the eyes, they play with their fingers when their lying or scratch their nose, nervous/tense when they speak.
- Gracious: Why is she nice all of a sudden? Most women get angry if you arrive late to a date or don’t feel like joining them in some outing with her friends, but what if she stops carrying about those things? It might be a nice to not put up with the lecture but it would make you wonder, why?
- Short Fuse: Being complicated as they are, they could have the total opposite reaction and instead of being nice and gracious, want to start a fight over any little thing.It’s a way of relieving their guilt by blaming you on some stupid little thing making them feel less guilty about themselves.When you have these types of fights and she suddenly leaves, try and find out where she goes…a good way to stop her from doing this is agreeing with her in everything she says, that will take away her guilt relief method till she finally confesses.
- Routine: Everyone has a set routine, works from 9-5, goes to the shops and drives home.If she suddenly goes out of that routine in one way or another, spends less time with you and tells you she has to stay late at work till 10 pm thats something to take note of, what kind of a boss asks you to stay late at work? They’d usually say “Finish the work off at home…” , if you call her office to check what she’s saying is true and they confirm it, I’d start looking into the coworkers or boss to see if anything is going on with them (then again, I’m the extremely paranoid type).
- Phoning: More calls on her cellphone than usual or she doesn’t take calls in front of you anymore could also be a sure sign.If she has nothing to hide, why take calls in private?
- Technology: With modern technology she could be cheating on you with someone on the other side of the planet, look for suspicious behavior when you enter the room and shes on the computer (she turns off the screen or closes any open windows), look through the browser/instant messenger history (if its deleted she might be trying to hide something) also check her phone for incoming and outgoing numbers, sms inbox ect…
- Secrecy: Women love to talk about their day, and all those little things that happened (something no girl has heard me say:”could you repeat that honey, but this time with more detail”).If you start noticing shes not telling you about her day at all, it could mean shes trying to hide something.Another method they might use is every time you try and ask them about their day, they give you a short answer and turn the tables asking you and showing more interest in yours.
- Docile: We’ve talked about the gracious method and the short fuse one, there’s also the “treat you like a king” guilt relief method.If she’s recently become very affectionate with you, constantly keeps reminding you how much she loves you, compliments your appearance, buys you presents or cards, wants to wash your car or watch some sport match with you it could mean there’s something very strange going on there.Now don’t be impulsive an accuse her of cheating with no actual evidence, she could just be in a good mood and feel genuinely nice lol, imagen how big of a jackass you’d look.
- Deceit: The most obvious of them all, if she tells you she’s going out with her friend Jenn yet when you go down to the shops you see Jenn there, thats a pretty sure sign there’s someone else in her life.As soon as you catch one of her lies, tell her, don’t wait till you gather a few up as she might come up with some crazy story by then.It’s better to clear things out immediately, why would you want to spend anymore time with a cheater?
I will repeat this again for any of you hot heads already digging your cheating girlfriends grave, some of these signs can mean she’s cheating but could also mean she’s just bored in the relationship (which might eventually lead to cheating), the best thing you can do is observe. Compare how she use to be with how she is now and once your more confident about your suspicions, confront her and ask her about it, it’s always better to be single than waste more time with a cheater right?
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