The Wingman, 4 Advantages Of Using One
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“There is nothing so annoying as to have two people talking when you’re busy interrupting.” - Mark Twain
I still remember the first time I was asked to be a friends wingman, we were at detention in high school and he informed me that he had overheard one of the girls break up over the phone with her boyfriend…naturally she was quite upset sitting with a tissue in her hand staring aimlessly at the wall.She was surrounded by a large group of friends that were trying to cheer her up, I decided to approach her and introduce myself, I tried to start off with a light conversation but clearly she wasn’t in the mood to talk.
I had to get their attention somehow so I decided to use a magic trick and asked her to open her pencil case, she looked at me perplexed as she reached for it and suddenly her face lit up with a huge smile as she found a red rose inside (slipped an expandable plastic rose while she was distracted), I told them that was a trick my friend had taught me and called him over so he could introduce himself to the girl, while I distracted the friends he had an open door to established a conversation with the girl.
Wingmen’s Duties
When you (”the pilot”) are choosing a wingman you have to find someone who is confident, reliable, spontaneous and comfortable with improvising or lying and that will always agree with you and back you up, I’ve had a few who’ve actually taken the girls side against me when discussing something.The role of the wingman isn’t as easy as you may think, it comes with a huge responsibility, like Ben Parker said “With great power comes a high electric bill great responsibility”.The following is a list of the four main duties a wingman will have:
- Consultant: The first thing your wingman will have to do is be your consultant, as we all know us males are blinded by testosterone so we need someone to keep us in place and not let us fall for the first girl we see.Make sure he is aware of the many different types of women out there (religious,skank’s, emotionally disturbed), I had this wingman once that kept telling me not to approach an Arab girl with a scarf on her head cause she could be one of those 72 virgins their saving up for terrorists :|. After you have established the “mark”, start planning the way you will try and approach her.
- Moral Support: Going out on your own to a place full of strangers and trying to create a relationship with one is a very intimidating, having a friendly face around sharing that experience and rooting for you makes it much more easier to build confidence.Some of the times your lucky enough to find a couple or group of girls that are on the same boat as you are, thats when you can call your wingman to join you.
- Distraction: If you find yourself in the above scenario where you are amongst a group of people, your wingman can become a great asset to distract the friends (usually uglier) while you separate yourself from the group with your newly found girl.However if the scenario is the total opposite and the girl is turning out to be a drag, you can signal your wingman to bail you out with some excuse.Despite the usefulness the distraction method offers, my favorite method is using my wingman in a group with the Perceptual Contrast Principle.
- Build Up: This of course is the main reason the wingman was created, the introduction: “You should meet my friend …… he love’s …… as well”, or in my case: “This is my friend Matty, he has a 10 inch cock! I’ll leave you two too it” (try starting a conversation after that). There’s plenty of ways a wingman can use the build you up to a girl or in some ways use the Social Proof Principal to create interest, it can be something from as little as getting your wingman to sit next to the girl and overhear the conversation of her interests so you can later use them in a conversation with her, or going for something more extreme like getting him to wear a ski mask and steal her purse so you can catch up to him get it back and be a hero…by the way if your going to try something that stupid, make sure you study the area and exit plan for your wingman, or you’ll end up having trouble explaining what you were doing to the police…
Pre-Outing Arrangements
As I mentioned in the distraction duties, you must go out prepared with at least a few plans and signals ready for use in an emergency or simply as a way to communicate.Make the signs subtle, if you ever teamed up to cheat at poker you’ll know what I mean, facial feature scratching eg: scratch to the head means “don’t wait up for me” or a scratch in the ear would equal “bail me out”.These are some of the basic signals you should have planned out:
I need back up - If your conversation is becoming dull and you run out of ideas this comes in handy to get your friend over and spice it up a bit by adding some new topics.
Bail me out - Used when the girl doesn’t turn out to be what you were hoping for and you need an excuse to leave.
Distract her friends - This could be used like explained above or is many other instances.
I’m low on cash - You may think this wouldn’t happen but one drink and dish leads to the other…
I always suggest using a wingman the first few times you decide to go out and meet women, it just makes the whole experience a lot more manageable as you can feel a bit overwhelmed, after you have matured and feel more confident in your skin around girls you may find the need to go at it solo since having someone watching you becomes to feel uncomfortable.I still use a wingman sometimes though, it always turns out to be a fun outing even if you don’t meet any girls.
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