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If Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus, what would happen if a man made his way onto Venus and established himself amongst Venusians to understand how they thought? And if we really are from Mars and they really are from Venus does that mean transexuals the only and true Earthlings? We set ourselves on a mission to answer all these questions and more.
The concept of Men On Venus started three years ago after leaving school.Like any good nerds me and a few friends decided to create a experiment, to try and better comprehend the female psychology and what it was they were looking for in a life partner by dating a variety of different women, if in the process we found that special someone, we would immediately withdraw from the experiment.We each chose a different style and methods to approach women and build relationships based on that, we later shared with each other what worked and what didn’t.
I chose the style of the Cavalier (Definition:gallant/chivalrous man who escorts woman of high social position) having noticed the modern gentleman had lost his chivalry I wouldn’t have much competition if I could somehow reinvent this old style to attract the modern women.My main approach has always been humor, laughter can conquer the impossible if used properly, apart from humor I also had to incorporate some other assets to my image, for more interesting conversations I would have to polish my intellectual skills by researching and reading some more, to add some fun and excitement I also added a bit of magic and finally as a way to play the part of a gallant I would have to get the proper clothing that would match the personality.
After many years of playing with theories and putting them to the test with ladies ranging from 17 to 38 years young and all types of life backgrounds and ethnic groups, I decided to share the secrets by making my own findings manual.Why? You’d think someone who made such discoveries wouldn’t share them with anyone else (at least for free) as it would stop being a secret and make him loose his edge, although that could be true…I have no problem in sharing my knowledge as I don’t use any specific technique/method like some pick up artists do (Mystery, Ross Jefferies..) that after a while of using them, they get redundant and old, also taking into consideration not all women are the same (each offering their own quirkyness and different level of resistance) or dumb so they will eventually start noticing guys using the same tricks and the ones that fall for it are not worth your time.
If you came here to find ways to get laid you might be on the wrong site, sure some of my methods will help you do that but most of my articles aim more to establish a long term relationship…it isn’t about changing your personality to become a charming jerk (another method) or using gimmicks to pick up women and have a one night stand then leave.When I made this blog I wasn’t planning on helping create pick up artist cause frankly after having met so many women to just play with their feelings I found it’s not worth it…those techniques might get you laid but it won’t help you meet any respectable women and you’ll end up alone, it comes down to your willingness to manipulate a women into falsely liking you too loose all morals and gain something physical (sex). I have used a few pick up methods and psychology analysis that will assist in braking the ice at the beginning and center her interest in you but my main goal is to help you realize what type of personality you have and without changing it, mold it into something that will attract the type of girl you really want, not the one you think you do just because everyone else does.
Everyone looks for something different when it comes to meeting women, some seek sex, others just want to have bragging rights and many seek love.My journey started with the last but somewhere along the way became a thrill ride of having personal challenges to see how long it took me to establish a relationship out of nothing.
On that more personal note, My name is Matthew, I’m in my early 20’s and I don’t have any special physical qualities, I’m from an mixed ethnic background, I’m not tall (5′9″ - 5′10″ tops) or muscular and although I might have a few exotic facial features, I’m not the stereotypical handsome.Working on this experiment helped me in many ways but one of the most important was building confidence, it allowed me try many different things I would have never done before including bar tending for a few months (to observe the environment from a different perspective) and also modelling.One of the earliest things I learned while doing this was the perception of someones beauty changes if that person has an addictive personality, we all know a short, fat or average looking guy that’s hilariously funny or possesses some other charm and has a beautiful lovely girlfriend.
I’m no expert in women and don’t claim to know everything there is to know about them (far from it), I want to share the little knowledge I obtained from my experience and maybe create a community of readers who can also share and teach their own discoveries.
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